Are white women sweeter ? (WTF?!)
The other day I was watching the series “The Game” with my cousin. Do you know the game ? A kind of “footballers’ wife” remake with pre-recorded laughter and more black people in it. Doesn’t ring a bell ? It’s not important. That’s not my point. My point is that in these series, one of the character told someone he didn’t want to be with a black woman because, black women were wild plus a real pain in the ass when it comes to relationship. Basically he was saying that white women were easy-going & easier to fool so he could do whatever he wants (as long as he was dating a white girl).
It gave us something to think about during youtube video loading.
Let me get this straight. Yes, black women have this reputation to be constantly angry. Yes, we have to fight for ourselves all the time. Yes, we have to take our chance. Yes, we have to struggle more than anyone else to find our place in this society ruled by old white men. So yes, that’s what makes us so fierce. We want R.E.S.P.E.C.T before anything else. And then my cousin came along with the idea that white women were sweeter and gentler. To her, black women are too much.
So white women would SEEM sweeter because life went easier on them. So maybe they look less combative but it’s just a lure. I’ve been working with white women for these five past years, and I should say that they are as fierce as black women, but in a different way. When a black woman will be fighting for respect and for being seen as a very capable worker and not just yet another bamboula, white women won’t fight but will be trying very hard to prove they are as capable as any man. Cause let’s face it, they are often considered as a piece of meat at the office.
They might take advantage of looking like a cuttie who doesn’t know better at the office to kick out this promotion. It ain’t fighting…But still. White women are not all sweety bitsy lovely fun. They seem sweeter to black people because a lot of them act like they just don’t care about men rulling the world when actually these girls are calling the shots by seducing and charming those horny men. But when white women DO really get concerned about men domination on a global basis & fight against it honestly, they are automitically called ugly-crazy-psycho-dyke-femininst-with-hairy-armpits. That’s why white women won’t show their teeth (or their armpits). They don’t want to be seen as feminists who pull everything together by themselves (cause feminist ain’t glamourous, dreamy and sexy).
Plus, it just scares the shit out of boys, (like a finger paper cut). So they’d rather keep it soft. On the contrary black women want to be seen as big-mouthed, strong, empowered women. Because for black women, strenght is what defines a woman. For white women what defines a woman is thinness, fragility, kindness soft skin and shiny perfumed hair. But It’s nothing new, being a strong empowered woman is a man repulsant… So white women chose the sweet way. And yes, it’s all about men again… again and again…
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one of my friend (a black man) said to me that he found white women more “naive” and “easier to manipulate”.
Which is a cliché but this is the way a lot of black guys see white women.
i don’t think that’s a question of colors but culture could have an impact about what’s happen in your brain !!!!
Sally, ur so righhhhhhhhhht!
Because RESPECT is the basis of any black woman’s education, WE are expecting the same level of respect from a man, period!
If black men think it is easier to date a white woman, it’s because, as they say in french, they want “le beurre et l’argent du beurre”. They want their girl to be beautiful, sophisticated, well educated, ambitious… but in the same time, they want us to shut our mouth at home and be here when they are back from work with a nice dinner fixed. Noooooooooooooooo black woman on earth would agree !
Moreover, they want the girl “herself”, i mean by that they dont wanna have any pressure from family members, friends… that would intefere in the relationship, tell them when they are wrong, and ask them to get married, pay for the bills….
In my opinion, the main difference between white and black woman is that we, black woman, never accept to leave or families and friends for a man, never get isolated and therefore, not easy to manipulate….
But let’s talk about those black men dating black women and asking them to act like white girls. These men are even WORSEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
This is certainly one of the silliest thing ever heard!
Love this post, you are right on every points! From the cradle to the grave, we have to be combative, to find our place in this world, to survive and people don’t make things easier for us with this way of thinking. It’s ridiculous !!!
sososo,
What’s the meaning of life if when you get older you don’t get better ???
Respect black white chiney women each one got her flavour a lot of Love
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Well I’ve discovered your blog and there are some interesting points (I’m a young white man 27).I liked your two last paragraphs
I have a relationship with an older black woman,well half indian from the west indies (gwada power lol) and what a pain in the ass she is sometimes with me,with her strong jealousy I’ve never seen that before but damn!lol how hot she is in intimate conditions xD.
I love her she is so fun she has a big sense of humour elle aurait pu être au jamel comedy club.She likes to be naughty,elle aime dire des trucs cochons et sait le mélanger avec l’humour.
Anyway she picked me up,I could not resist
I had always problems with Parisian white girls, I don’t like clichés but from my own experience they can be so boring,hypocrites,so complicated,bref pénibles et trop exigeantes,arrivistes,pas très compréhensives,bref tout ce que je déteste lol :).So defaults that I don’t see with my girlfriend.
I know Paris is certainly one of the reason of my experiences lol)
I often say it is like having to send your cv and your motivation letter to obtain an appointment in order to pay restaurant and expensive drinks to be “hired”.(I know this is mean but true lol)
So I’d like to ask: How is that possible that black guys can manipulate white girls? (by their “bad boy” self confidence attitude, their fashion rnb hip hop look?)
I agree I think it is just a lure,they just let these guys think that they’re leaders until they change their minds.
To conclude, yes black women are in a certain way big mouthed but are much more simple and frank in a certain way.Bref je les trouve franches.
Elles sont féminines et sexy sans pour autant jouer les effarouchées,les fines fragiles.